@lakelly, thx for the post . it reminder me i should read the posts and respond.. took some time 
@Bibliophile, thanks for sharing ur experience…forgetting, losing interest in routine is what i am concerned about with kids.. i will also go over the posts in the link u gave.. thx
@sugargremlin, i don’t know much about bipolar disorder but i heard it’s not long lasting…looks like you made a informed decision on this.. and thanks for excellent advice of kids not having to be genetic related.. it’s the best one i heard so far..
@caper, yes agreed
@bilid, sorry you had to go through that rough life…thanks for the inputs
@Geoduck depends of the day!! LOL…i will check out the book and thanks for the good words.. i agree with multiple things have to come together to turn a bad seed as i had a similar experience.. yea, i liked that guy on youtube first but after few more videos not sure if i like him anymore.
@Filmbuff1984, excellent points.. need to have a mountain of patience and self discipline to take care of others specially if they are disabled too.. i am pretty sure i dont have those and not learning them either…
thanks for posts. it gave few more points which i did not have in mind to think about, thx again
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