Re: Avoiding sex, yet addicted to sex?

[Anonymous]

I’m not a psychiatrist or psychologist but if I may be frank here, it likely has nothing or very little to do with how much he loves you. In all probability, he’s associating sex with something lurid and titilating rather than associating it with love. Rather, he associates love with caring, nurturing and affection. It explains the proclivity to strippers and porn. To liken you to these stimuli, in his mind he’s degrading you so keeps the sexuality at a distance due to this association.

It may be that wearing provocative clothing or appealing to that type of desire in him is moving him further away from you as a sexual object because he doesnt want you in the same parentheses as porn stars and exotic dancers. We ADDers are generally a rather sensitive lot – more empathic and far more in tune with our harmony or discordance of emotion. To misplace the sympatico of intimacy and love may be a relatively normal occurrence for someone with ADD or ADHD…

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