I completely agree, going forward with these, we have to be our own gyroscopes, feeling where we are out of balance and doing what we can to restore it, with the help of supportive family, friends, and professionals.
Steffie – your mother-in-law asked you for a POWERPOINT presentation on a plan for your life? That is the weirdest thing I have ever heard of. Does she realize how cold and uncaring that sounds? I would just give her a big hug and say “love is all you need” it sounds like she needs a dose of it. 