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@toofat – I dont think the lack of “small talk ability” is an ADD trait, but rather the avoidance aspect of it. Just as you said, it takes practice and time… pair that with avoidance and here we are, feeling like we are on the outside looking in and just cant connect. I totally agree with your examples! Thats the biggest lesson im learning at the moment being a perfectionist. I am just learning, of course it will be hard and awkward at first.. realizing that has made a big difference and knowing I dont have to get it right the first time took a huge load off my shoulders. Toofat! You are AWESOME! I really look up to you!
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