@Kylep — thanks for replying about the friendlationship problem! You coined a legacy phrase there I think 
. A great classic rock song by a band named “.38 Special” was a great anthem about this problem (look it up on youtube). “If you cliing too tightly, you’re gonna loose control”. Most girls will want some room to breathe, to feel independant, to be allowed to love you back and not feel smothered. In my younger dating years, I never got that when a potential soul mate 😉 would tell me that I was a great guy BUT she just wants to be “friends”. I called the “friend talk of death”. Yup, happened enough that I’d call it “being friend-dead”. 🙄
Yet – I ramble …. Oh look, a bird at the window…
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