Re: I am a 23 year old female just found out and my boyfriend wont understand

[Anonymous]

laddybug 23, we sound alot alike! of course i only yell at people who drive stupid, but my boss, my boyfriend, and a lot of my friends get so upset with me because i talk so loud, but i cant help it i don’t realize how loud i talk but obv they do, i do try to control it when i notice but it dosent help either. I work in an animal hospital and talking to clients is good but my co workers do get mad too because sometimes i take forever because i talk so much. Whats weird is that at work im very social with clients and i dont know them but outside of work i have such a problem talking to people i dont no and being in groups of people where i only know 1 person, i feel like im in physical pain during those times. im supossed to go to a dr and get some kind of med tomorrow so i hope to see what diff it makes, i can be productive( in work terms) it just takes me longer to write things down because i forget what im writing, or i need someone to repeat things becuase i dazed out when they were talking to me ( co workers really hate that!) as far as the bf goes i guess things get better and worse, i do well for a week with no anger outbursts then he talks about a hot model on tv and i flip my lid for an hour then im fine. i dont believe crazy low self esteem and jealousy have anything to do with add? probably not! i appreciate everyones comments they have helped alot.

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