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Hi Adam! I thinks it’s pretty common for ADDers to have shared that feeling of being a “failure” — I know I sure do! Like yourself, I have a very difficult time with follow-through and am constantly beating myself up for not taking enough (if any) action on my goals and ideas. It’s very frustrating and a bit depressing at times. You know you have all this potential, but some unexplained thing holds you back – well, it IS explained by being diagnosed with ADD. Still, it’s no fun watching others whiz past you when you know you have as much if not more ability, intelligence, etc.
I take medication (Adderall), which helps “wake up ” my brain, but it’s certainly not a cure-all, nor should it be expected to be. Understanding how your own ADD works is essential to well, making it work for you. There are lots of books out there on the subject!
ADD as a gift – I like to think of it that way, too – can be your creative mind, ability to make connections others don’t see, probably a great sense of humor, and so much more! It’s very much an individual journey as ADD presents uniquely in each person.
Good luck with your GP!! Let us know how it goes!
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