>Dating is tough for me because I am really shy and have a hard time breaking out of my shell. Once I do I think I overwhelm people I am loud, talk too much, constantly switch topics, and so on.
Sounds like nervous babbling. Some of us do that including myself. 
I get drained from being around people in-person. It just takes about 10-20min before i’m drained and need to sleep. Take a car ride as an example, this great scenery is going past, breath taking views, and what is she doing, babbling on about nothing trying to fill the silence. LOOK A THE DAM VIEW GOING BY! Geez. Another one, talking during new movie or TV program. Both are massive turn offs.
Eye contact is non-verbal communication. There is no need to say anything at all. Words are not needed, just a look and/or touch. Never talk during a movie unless you’ve seen it at least ten times. Even then quick statements, not to spoil it.
No is such thing as awkward silence. Long hours nothing but silence. When we do talk it’s about important things, not small talk drivel. It’s lets get to point, get the problem solved, and discuss only as long as needed. For more complex issues, the convo runs it’s course and ends. Most people settle because it’s expected. I’m not one them.
I’v given up in-person meetings a while back. I’m on the third dating website and last. Things look good, but i’m realistic. I’m willing give it a few years. After that, it’s time to accept my fate. She doesn’t exist in the real world, only in my mind. I’m not there yet, but the idea of accepting it is getting easier with time. I’ll just assume she isn’t my type and not bother trying.
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