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kc5jck, Thank you for explaining some more. It sounds like a difficult situation. How does she describe the anger she experiences?
Maybe Wolfshades has a point. I know someone with borderline, and the completely unfair fighting, together with extreme and intense anger, were certainly present. She was my neighbour and at one point it was directed at me, for offending her in some way. We both moved away and are no longer in contact. From what she had told me about the things she had done in the past, it scared the shit out of me when it became directed at me. Thankfully she told me I wasn’t worth stalking! Yey!
But I think her decision not to was more motivated by me telling her previously that I had no qualms of immediately calling the police if she would ever do any of that stuff to me (stalking, anonymous phone calls, threatening with bodily harm, breaking windows, etc).
K, I can’t tell if this is a contributing factor for your fights, ofcourse.
Separating her anger from her personality seems like a reasonable way to get to grips with it, but maybe there is another cause.
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