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LOTs of excellent help here already. Notes for when ya come back. I too have had a strong reaction to the four letter word in capital letters.
RAGE,
for people who feel so very deeply, it looks like doom on my screen. It’s a painful kind of fear some of us feel. We know rage, we know fear. They’re kissin cousins.
“The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it is taking place”
-some smart person, can’t member thu name.
I just say
Yeah! team totallyADD. We Rock! this place is a love fest of a web site. Imagine what we could do if we had eye contact, body language, tone of voice. Complete n whole communications.
We fill in the blanks as human beings do. Sometimes with our own fears…
“The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it is taking place”
-some smart person, can’t member thu name. (worth repeating)
And what Pete said too. IMAGINE! That could go either way…
new member
As you describe your husband, your self, and his rage. I’m reminded of lyrics by Jimi Hendrix, a few different songs. The power we give ourselves and each-other. That may or may not belong there.
“Well I stand up next to a mountain, chop it down with the edge of my hand.
Pick up all the pieces and make an Island, might even pray for a little sand”
“Manic depression, it’s a full straight in mess”
“Love can’t stop a Voodoo Child”
All this being said, there is always hope for any relationship. Nearly all human problems can be solved, tragedy avoided. Love re-discovered. Unity and lasting companionship held on to.
Please keep soaking in the help that is on the way, at home and here.
Please keep coming back here, people care, some of us are going through the same stuff at the same time.
We want to know you and your husband are okay.
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