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I find the key to achieving anything is to be able to recognize not only the goal ( as in thing you want to achieve) but why you want it in the first place. It took a lot of work, but once I was able to identify my core values, then I was able to attach all of my other actions to them. It works for the simpler aspects, such as say why bother doing laundry or pay bills on time, to more complex issues like deciding on how much time you spend volunteering or should you spend time working on a client project when the weather outside is beckoning you to the golf course! By way of example, one of my values is harmony in my life at all costs. So while I truly hate doing laundry – having it piled to the ceilings ( and trust me it’s been there!) would really be counter productive to my need for harmony in my living space. As would having my phone service cut off so I’d rather keep track of due dates in my agenda! While I often have to remind myself of this when tempted to something more fun, it far easier to make a better choice.
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