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Gift…
Liability…
A little from column A, a little from column B…
that is why it is so hard to pin down. You see things others don’t, but you miss things others see.
you can be both brilliant and dreadful given the right combination of environment, mental state, stimuli and possibly even, phase off the moon. We just don’t know enough yet.
the whole point of the Gift mentality is to provide a positive mental image for those of us who have it, not to beat linears over the head with how much better we are. They keep the world running, it is set up for them, but without us they just plod along doing the same old thing.
we provide that flash of left field, out of the box thinking that gives the exponential increases. But it is a bit like a person with bipolar, we can be very high, but we can also be very low and actually have a negative effect on society. Life is a bell curve and just like find more men at the 2 extremes (most successful, powerful and absolute bottom of the rung) people with AD(H)D will sit in these 2 extremes. It is possible for the rest of them to be at the extremes, but a higher percentage of us will be there because that is how we are programmed.
i realise the gender comment above may be contentious, but it all comes down to risk and reward. 100 may take the risk, less than 10 will get the reward. There are always exceptions, but generally speaking I have found this to be true.
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