Reply To: My ADDamant Stand Against Marriage – Am I Wrong?

[Scattybird]

Hi gianmaria – you make some interesting points. I am glad your children have brought you a lot of happiness. They can be fun.

I wonder if female ADDers view this topic in the same way as male ADDers and whether there’s a difference between generations of men and women too?  So the older male ADDer might be looked after and organised by his spouse but a younger or more enlightened male (not that older men can’t be enlightened of course!) might be expected to pull his weight around the home more meaning that his ADHD might be more problematic because of shared responsibility?

I suspect we won’t find out here because folk who contribute to the forum are probably all enlightened and not of the dinosaur era.

blackdog – I don’t know why, but I now have a vision of your husband being like a  little incidental pet. You sometimes remember to give him a walk or feed him, but not always? 🙂 Actually I think it’s great that you have plenty to occupy your mind to an extent that you forget him. That’s healthier than being in each other’s pockets.

 

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