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Re: Carrying a Guilt

Re: Carrying a Guilt2011-07-20T19:19:42+00:00

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July 20, 2011 at 7:19 pm #104902

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July 20, 2011 at 7:19 pm
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I think carrying a guilt is the opposite – always assuming they are right and it is yourself that is in the wrong. And there’s where the virus of self-doubt starts eating you away from the inside.

I NEVER know the right thing to say, how to ease someone’s frustration and when I try, they snap at me. I cannot win. Why am I here? If I am such a burden to these people, why don’t they just send me away?

I’m supposed to find some magical reserve of willpower to heal myself and be the right kind of person who always says the right things and nobody ever gets mad at and not only can I not do it, but I don’t even want to try.

Giving up seems so much easier.

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