Re: Lost love, found ADHD

[Anonymous]

During spring I had to move out after a 13 year marriage. I was is denial about my issues at the time. Was diagnosed ADHD as child but not told and just loved being outside and tha never changed. I beleive that if someone truly loves and respects you they should realize criticism is like acid it eats away at esteem and only causes increased behaviors. It is I beleive a coping mechanism used against us. People who use can not say they do not see the negative impact is has on anyone. I love my ex but have lost respect for her. There are lots of others out there you have accepted you have ADHD. Be open when meeting someone new and feel free to express how your thought process races or jumps around. I used to button right up and amn that was seen as been passive aggressive and from my point caused a huge increase in anxiety. Keep open line of conversation and health teach potential partners early in the game. It will pay off and you will be very confident in an emotionally intimate relationship. Remeber too that everyone has issues not just us.

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