Re: Survival in an ADD relationship…

[Anonymous]

thank you so much,kc5jck! I believe i am learning! I look back and see his behavior isn’t so much purposeful but random. I used to get upset when he’d take me shopping for a newer car and days later,it was as if we never looked. I felt hurt and wondered why he’d bother to “tease” me that way! now I understand its how his brain works and don’t take things so hard. He is the impulsive type of ADDer and so i have to be the one to deal with the bills and such. It makes me crazy that we cannot act as a team right now in our marriage,but i am hopeful that at some point,when the rollercoaster is back at the top of the climb,we will be able to talk things out.I guess at this point though it is all up to me to get advice here and read all i can to help MYSELF.I look forward to reading more in the future and am truely greatful to everyone for connecting on this forum.

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