Oh, hey I just had a thought:
Bob would you mind if I ran your story past my sister? She’s Mennonite minister (no, not the horse and buggy kind, nor the “Complicated Kindness” kind. Don’t get me off on that tangent unless you really want to know. 
) and when she was in University, she co-authored a document for Mennonite Church USA on including people with intellectual disabilities in the church.
It’s not exactly the same thing, I know, but she also has some understanding of ADHD from getting her teaching certification in Special Education in Va.
Also, a quick google search of ADD and church turned up this: http://addchurch.blogspot.com/
It’s a podcast by a minister with ADD. I haven’t had a chance to listen to anything yet… But maybe it would be helpful?
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