Reply To: Married for 17 years, kids, now "adjusting" to treatment.. Question…

[That Guy with ADHD]

Hi fatherto5,

Thanks for posting a very good question. While I can’t help with an experienced opinion I can say that I am generally a very laid back guy and would either overlook or forget about anything like chores not being done. In fact I usually blame myself if my wife wasn’t able to prepare a meal or do laundry as if it was somehow my fault. So if things aren’t getting done I end up doing it. Unlike you I haven’t found a medication that works but wonder how my relationship might change if I finally find the right prescription. I could easily see myself having feelings similar to yours. The transition can’t be easy for either of you. Switching gears after 17 years may put some stress on the clutch and grind a few teeth before you settle into a new one.

I’m sure there are others in the community that might have similar experiences.

Kindest regards

Richard
AKA That Guy with ADHD

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