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Larynxa is awesome. The book that made the most difference for Ava and I was Gina Pera’s comprehensive guide for couples, “Is It You, Me, or Adult A.D.D.?” She has worked with a lot of couples in her local support group, and her journalist background means she’s a sharp writing with a lot of insight. The book is available in the shop. I should probably link to it, but I forget how and Ava’s not here. Anyway, it’s good. And so is Melissa Orlov’s book, “The ADHD Affect On Marriage”.
They both help make it less personal, painful, hurtful or look like one partner is trying to mess with the other.
A lot of what Larynxa is talking about is that dance you go through to figure out what’s going on.
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