Re: Automatically assume things are my fault

[Anonymous]

we need to make a definate attempt at making our lives enjoyable … the service dog sounds great,

but my cats tell me that i have enough to do taking care of their needs .. and they dont need a dog.

my cats keep me sane … or somewhat. if shit happens, then it happens

there is no gain to thinking about hte amounts of crap that happened in the first 59 years.

I do allow myself to think that many of the perpetrators …

teachers, counsellors, etc, were misguided and now maybe buried

I have been told to let the past be dead, the future unknown, and stick to the present

my cats are masters of being in the present and not worrying about how i messed up careers,

and they are willing to remind me to feed them and clean the litter any number of times without animosity

cats do not blame or sulk … they do not charge $350. / hour to suggest that I try yet another pill

I think that we need to reinvent ourselves … with out the guilt, the shame or the nagging assumptions

I asked Tea and Bunn, but they are ready to nap, so further suggestions will have to wait until they are ready.

there is a nice movie … as good as it gets … it has a dog, but no cats … be nice to yourself ?

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