Well, I don’t want to misrepresent the situation. I mean, we DO have sex…I haven’t been “cut off.” It’s just not as often or as focused as I’d like it to be. Also, he DOES talk to me about the ADD…just not the sex. Breaks my heart and yes, I am definitely in emotional pain but I’m trying to stick by him until he can get some treatment. I don’t want to abandon him, nor do I want to lose him. I love him, but I haven’t said so because I’m scared. He’s not young…he’s 34 and I’m 38. And yeah…who doesn’t like Pat Benatar? 
(especially from my generation). I would be willing to forgive all past lies and potential infidelities if we could just start fresh. But I can’t forgive what doesn’t get acknowledged. And yes, I”m right in the middle of reading “Is it You, Me, or Adult ADD.” As for money, we don’t live together and I do a good job of taking care of myself, so his finances are his business.
Re: Avoiding sex, yet addicted to sex?2011-12-21T22:23:13+00:00