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Got to start by changing you. There is a whole lot of pain and suffering in that email, all those things he’s done, does, he must be an awful man. For someone so altruistic to have tolerated this you should be held on high and celebrated. It takes two honey.
Could you have asked some questions, in a calm constructive way, to find out why things fell apart the other day? Did you assume you understood his intensions or did you ask the right question to find out? It’s very likely that there were reasons, very valid to him for what happened, but getting him to see that and feel okay about telling you should be the goal. Understanding is important and it goes both ways. Good luck.
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