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Thank you so much for sharing your experience, munchkin. I had basically determined that this is indeed what happened…trying to diffuse the situation in the moment. Because I have worked really hard to educate myself about ADD, I am definitely able to move past this blunder. Which leads me to another ADD trait: inconsistency! My boyfriend did an EXCELLENT job with my holiday gifts (we celebrated early since I’ll be out of town). He chose things that made it clear to me that he knows who I am, and what I like. It’s amazing how he can mess something up and then turn around and succeed SO effectively in the exact same situation. I love him, and no birthday blunder is going to change that. Keep that in mind next time you feel like you’ve screwed up something big. The people who love you will forgive, and continue to love you for who you are!