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Re: Looking for advice about a toxic future Father-in-Law

Re: Looking for advice about a toxic future Father-in-Law2010-06-28T19:43:54+00:00

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wolfshades
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I think you answered your own question with that last paragraph. At the end of the day, your hubby-to-be will have to take the bull by the horns. Or not. He may resent it if you decide to “help” him.

You could force the issue of course. The next time father-in-law-to-be says some derogatory, you could tell him to go stuff himself. He’ll then turn on you, and it will be up to your fiance to defend you (thereby calling his father on his abusive behaviour), or not.

Other than that – I can’t see any way out of this horrific situation.

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