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Yeah, that is one huge post.
Can you break it down? Give it to us a bit at a time?
One comment-Never cancel out flowers you bought your wife. Even if you don’t feel like it at that particular moment.
One thing I’ve learned is that if I honour my feelings too much, life becomes a roller coaster. Feelings change, based on what happens to us, what we know, what we’ve been told… They are real. But in a way, they aren’t real. Every spouse has had the thought flash through their head, “I should never have married him!” Or, “I’d be better off without her.” Or, “I should never had had kids.” If you listen to that voice and believe it, man, it’ll kill you.
As you alluded too in your massive posting, your feelings are a roller coaster of ups and downs. And anger is deadly man. Deadly. I have never ever regretted biting my tongue and taking the high road. Cause sure enough, two minutes later, I found out some additional information and I felt like a jerk. (Which is of course another feeling that I decided not to honour.)
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