Right here we’re seeing evidence of that thing about ADHD having a higher prevalence in the Ukraine… 
(For the record, I’m not Ukrainian, Swiss/German by way of Pennsylvania on one side, English, Irish and Scottish on the other.)
Here’s something I found really helpful for me in terms of making friends. Find clubs or group activities that you’re interested in. If you have trouble making small talk, then the interests of group provide something to talk about.
Meetup.com is a great tool for that. For myself, I used Meetup to discover a monthly Doctor Who get together in downtown Toronto, and made a lot of friends that way.
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