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Well today I saw the “ADD and loving it” show on PBS and join TotallyADD.com. I cried that there is someone that can finally help me, help myself. THANK YOU!!!!!!! But when I tried to tell my husband he blew it off like it was an excuse, He has no sympathy!! I understand him and why he’s the way he is but it still hurts that he wants nothing to do with my ADHD or try to understand it. He is wonderful though, he loves me for me, and he has a really good sense of humor.

When I tried to talk to my family (mom, dad, and sisters) they still insist on telling me what is best for me and that just confuses me more.(and of course pisses me off). I LOVE LOVE LOVE being an “at home mom” and I have to say its one of the first successes that I am proud of and is always an on going “work in progress”. But I suck as a homemaker, my house is always messy and cluttered, and my children see this and may thing that this is normal. I can’t afforded a maid. And this also makes me a bad wife. I’m home all day, but the house isn’t clean?(I’m hoping that I can found help.) Well back to the point my sister and mom (and husband) insist that I need a career and I don’t understand why I can’t be a successful house wife. I love the people my children are turning out to be so far and being the person that had something to do with that!!!

Thanks for listening

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