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Well,I’m going to throw a curve into this folks…
My husband thinks it’s BS although he sort of humors me about it. He has never read ( at least that he admits or I’ve seen) about ADD. At first I wanted to discuss with him etc. But then realized he’s just not ready or capable for various reasons. So I decided to get on with life and deal with it on my own and quite frankly so far this is working for me. However, I’ve always been very independent so this may not be a choice everyone is happy with. But what I’m trying to say is, just do what you have to do for yourself. Would you expect your spouse to have to read books on diabetes, thyroid problems or whatever too? I don’t think it means that the person doesn’t care. On the other hand, If you are treated with disrespect, belittled etc etc in general then IMHO it is a symptom of a bigger problem.
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