You saying “Whom I have nothing in common with/or not attracted to”, made me think of my husband and I. When I first met him I thought he was the biggest creep and wanted nothing to do with him. Of course he liked me and he chased me for a year nonstop, I felt flattered and then went out with him. He and I have NOTHING in common. I come from a loud household, I am very loud fast paced. He comes from a very slow, quiet home. He used to think I was yelling at him when merely I was just excited haha I LOVE my music loud and I LOVE to be around people, he would hide in my basement almost in tears when ever he came over to my house and there were about 10 of us there. We have different tastes in music, movies, hobbies. Complete opposites we are! I gave it a chance however, and really he is the best person ever! We have been together for 7 years now, and I think he is the most attractive person in the world when really he was the complete opposite of what I found to be “attractive”. Even though we have nothing in common and are total opposite, we work so well together. Of course we have had our ups and downs, but when we got married we said through thick and thin etc! We meant it! Anyways… Im just saying not to rule out those who you dont find attractive or have nothing in common with! 
Re: finding someone to share life experiencesCarrie2011-04-15T21:48:52+00:00