Re: There's a “tone” to my voice that everyone hates

[Anonymous]

Kinda on topic…..communication related anyway. A simple communication tool I use, allows me to stay focused, and allows me to wait for my turn in the flow of a conversation.

When I have a thought…. about something related or somewhat related to what somebody is telling me…… and it happens all the time….I kind of give them the pause sign (maybe holding my hand up slightly) and say quickly…. “remind me of XXXXX”……..which is a one/ two word que…then I quickly say ….”sorry go on”…..and I can return to listening intently. It WORKS….nobody minds, it isn’t rude, because I do it quickly and then give them my full attention………they ALL remind me after they are finished speaking…..it works!!! It kills the impulsive blurt need..it frees one to focus and reduces drift….it is a nice way of sharing with the speaker that your listening and care about what they are saying……….it works…..for me.

Simple, effective……nice little tool, fits neatly in your pocket or handbag….

Toofat

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