Re: What if I'm just a crappy person?

[Anonymous]

Hi, FairytailT…….wow, India that is too cool!!! I tend to believe a positive outlook is just a direct reflection of the vision and perspective filters through which we view our world. In essence positive vision/perspective flows from following my heart. Fact is, we only seem to co-occupy this sphere for a blink in time…..so I tend to (try) not dwell on what could, or what others expound should be (that is what my head try’s to do)… but more embrace what is…..for me!! That philosophy seems to serve me well….while the alternative, seems to detract from my life and appears to be a delivery mechanism for angst…..but thanks for your kind words.

Marry? or not?? Quite a question FTT…I can only wonder…. at the tender age of 26…..is marriage a pressing matter, or in time, will your heart eventually guide you to the appropriate answer there too??? It is also my belief that many people are still very much in personal development at 26…and have not yet completed all of the tasks to their adult stage of life….although physically, 26 is said to be prime, I don’t believe they are the same thing. Many values and to some degree morals and principles that carry us through life may still be in development…..we are for all intent and purpose still “practicing” or ‘trialing” our adulthood self. Our 20s, to me, are all about that. Having said that, the question becomes….. “how do we’…”should we”, make permanent life choices and commitments when, or if, we are not yet solidified in who we are, or who we are are going to be”? I don’t know…..I certainly cannot, and must not, speak for another…it is not my place.

So, as I’ve said, I let my heart be my guide…..my only job then is to ensure I try stay in touch with it (as much as possible), and listen……..so far the times that I find myself struggling the most, is when I stray, and I find I haven’t been listening. So I try ( I’m not always successful)…..I try to stop…..and listen……quietly.

How could that be wrong….???

Toofat

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