Re: ADD and marriage

[Anonymous]

Thank you for the reply.

We are trying to figure something out. My only reason for seeking input, is because I have started to questions all of my emotions. Half the time i’m trying to process weather I’m being impulsive upset or if I’m being reasonably upset. I want to find the right help for us and I guess I’ve been a little afraid to rush to conclusions. I have approached him as asked if he would mind looking into ADHD as well, to which he was not happy (I got the impression he feels that I’m being unreasonable by asking) so I went back to questioning myself (hence the post). I don’t mean to make his sound bad, he is an amazing person I am so lucky to have him, we may be facing a bit of unique circumstance and I want to support him. I’m just getting overwhelmed and confused about what is reasonable for me to ask and what is me needing to learn to have more perspective.

Either way, You said you have just started your medication. I know that what i’ve said above might make this seem strange but my life is starting to make some real improvements because of it. 7 months ago, I didn’t sleep (well), really quick to react to thing, didn’t understand why I wasn’t getting the things done. Now I’m doing better out side of the home and at home we have gone from chaos to a more structured version of chaos, life isn’t peachy (yet) but even though I question myself and am feeling this way. I know that the decisions I’m making and the actions I’m taking are the ones I really want to. Not just the ones I do.

huh… I think just typing that out helped a little.. Thx

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