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Re: 21year old son in university and everything he has been telling us is a LIE !!!

Re: 21year old son in university and everything he has been telling us is a LIE !!!2012-09-30T21:44:23+00:00

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allan wallace
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Does your lad have (m)any close friends, or a girlfriend? He knows that he’s screwed up in a big way because that’s why his lies ended up ensnaring him, no? Even if he’s not showing it he will be feeling bad about it, and as mad as you and your wife are at him, he’ll most likely be even angrier at himself, no? I’m not defending him, I just know what it’s like to be caught up in a tsunami of one’s own bullshit, and when facing the consequences…I used to hope for the ground to just swallow me up for I always felt gutted whenever I’d hurt or let somebody down…again! I think that some have mentioned that until he accepts that he needs help he can’t be helped is basically true. ‘Lead a horse to water’ and all that crap. God, I used to detest that saying 😆 I know from my perspective that my perceived uselessness was always compounded whenever I fucked up something simple over and over again. Like maxing out a credit card and eventually not paying it back just hoping that it would go away, or blowing cash that was meant for something important. To this day I’m still irresponsible with money, and just seem determined to spend it on whatever I can as soon as I can :D My wife looks after the finances…. 😈

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