Re: Avoiding sex, yet addicted to sex?

[allan wallace]

Very interesting…for me I kind of enjoy the selfish imagining of various scenarios. In my mind it’s impersonal, an expression of freedom, and a challenge to conformity. Just the thought of something unconventional is tantamount to an act of rebellion if you like, and for me the thrill lies in being able to persuade somebody to be willing to do something that falls within those parameters….it’s a dangerous game, which in itself is very exciting, and occasionally things have transpired which have had consequences of shame for my partners, but don’t register for me as I have no emotional investment in any of that junk. It’s exciting, but disgusting I suppose, and most of the time I can contrive to ensure that nothing too lurid will happen. Mind you, as it presently stands I’m under sexual sanctions from my wife, so it’s not likely to be a source of tension for quite a while 😆

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