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August 4, 2011 at 3:30 am
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Probably a few things at play in our heads that lead us to argue:
- We enjoy stimulus and arguing gets endorphins going
- We are poor listeners and might misunderstand a point or simply get irritated by the need to wait, which puts us in an argumentative state
- We go off on tangents which leads to more to talk about and more arguing
- We may have anti-social, ODD or other comorbidities that result in us getting a thrill from making others admit they are/were wrong
- Arguing is usually fast paced and fits our thinking pattern, unlike debate which requires waiting turns, making sure to address previously stated points, etc.
- We may just enjoy the human interaction as many of us end up shunned from social networks due to our lack of impulse control, e.g. saying hurtful things unintentionally
- ADHD people often hold world views that are rigid as a coping strategy. Things are good or bad. We are poor at handling grey issues and this might lead us to take a stance on either the black or white side in order to remove the middle ground