Dear abslt0’s wife.
Your husband is NOT Lazy, Crazy or Stupid.
He is actually very intelligent, but suffers from ADD (as do so many of us on this forum).
The problem is – his brain works so fast, he can’t keep up with his thoughts.
There are many medications now available that can help him “leash his demons” without becoming “a vegetable”, or “a Zombie.”
And he gets to keep his ADD “gift of Hyper-Focus.”
It will take a good doctor, and – possibly – several med trials to find what’s right for HIM.
And it’s not as simple as taking a pill and “you’re cured.”
But once his Brain Chemistry Imbalance is looked after, it’s like putting glasses on his mind. He will begin to see clearly and with help from his Doctor and – more importantly – you, he can begin the hard work of correcting the problems of his past and starting a whole new life in his control.
I know what I’m talking about.
This is exactly what happened to me.
I sincerely wish both of you the best future you can possibly have.
Cheers till next time,