Quit the shrink. I am 47, had 80 jobs and got diagnosed 2 years ago. I know your pain. I took 2 years to find a good psychiatrist, highly recommended by a patient, who specializes in ADD, and has ADD. I know of the quacks of which you speak. Quit the shrink and find a psychiatrist that knows ADD inside and out. This is step one. Step two is up to you two to decide. Step three is 99% likely to be self employment. Good luck.