Re: My wife is leaving me because I am not “Passionate”

[Anonymous]

@ EJ

I wish there was some way I could link you to my first post on this site. It was a carbon image of yours!

My relationship with my partner was on the brink, it was claimed that it was all my fault and that I also did not think of her and her needs. Guilt upon guilt upon guilt… We trail separated.

In that time I reflected on my FAILS but also on her negatives. Blame seemed to be all there was. Then it hit me.

Our time is short and what we think IS our reality. We can change it! my tip is to not got caught up in petty arguments, emotionally detach and turn frustration into patience.

Sounds arty farty but it works I promise…..

The next step was to stop blaming yourself. Take ownership. Once you feel less guilt and more positive, your outlook changes and people notice. They stop blaming and start to trust, trust leads to love and love to being secure.

Concentrate on rewiring your mind to cut out the negatives….

Sorry that this is scattered and probably hard to read or understand! I hope you can find something here to help you. Please post back to tell us how you are…

Pete aka A freind

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