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Re: No Friends

Re: No Friends2010-05-08T21:51:13+00:00

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Hey Just Me.

I don’t think that finding good friends, or even just friends is a problem that just us ADDers have. Like some have mentioned, society today has alot to do with it and I know alot of “normal” people with the same struggles. That doesn’t make it any easier.

I don’t have much time to explain my lot in life right now ( got to go out for an early mothers day dinner with my Mom) but I will say there is one thing that has made a huge difference in my life and in having friends to hang around with. Church.

I can imagine many people running for the doors after reading that one word, but i can say with confidence that our friends that don’t belong to a church family feel pretty isolated and alone in this big world, which is a big difference to the feeling of belonging our church going friends have. I’m not trying to cram religion down your throat, and I’m not part of some cult recruiting team. I’m just metioning it because I see what a big difference it makes it our lives now. I always use to take it for granted but there are many things that have made me see how fortunate my family and I are.

At the risk of being late for dinner I will say that many people have a bad opinion of the Christain church and I can’t say it is without reason. Most people think of the church as judgemental, hypocritical and anti gay and thats nobodys fault but the churches. I’m a poor excuse for a Christian myself and am embarassed at the damage I can do to peoples view of a beautiful thing, that being God’s undonditional love for us. ( us being you included.)

Um……….Amen.

Babysitters are alot easier to find too. See ya.

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