Oh my I got it…Veronica and good for you for actually writing it and staying on track. You’re absolutely right – my husband always felt frustrated and not valued because I never pulled the same dice as him even though I wanted to and he knew I wanted to but could never figure out what was the matter and I think he began to give up or just excepted it for just being me. I believe, Vernoica that the key is education, communication, comprise and understanding…that will help non-adders understand why it isn’t as simple as they see it in their minds. I truly believe that our partners, friends, lovers, families coleagues don’t want ill will towards us as they want to be able to understand how to complement our strengths and not feed our weaknesses.Who wants drama in their lives all the time…life is far too short for that. I have to believe that however…Im not nieve to the fact that we do have individuals in our lives who live off of disfuction and push our buttons continually. Medication allows us to pull the same dice as our counter part approximately 80% of the time (I’m not a dr…read this stats on the web); but it doesn’t change who we are…it is up to us to acknowledge the behaviours that work for us and adjust accordingly…we still have to do the work for ourselves. I believe that we then complement ourselves which in turn complements our family etc.
How’s that for Valentine’s Day!!! Happy Valentine’s Day to all the wonderful men and women on this site…hopefully you pull the right dice today…Good Luck (if cheating helps hey go for it 
all in fun)
Elizabeth
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