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I hear you.

I’m still trying to figure out if the problems I have in relationships are my fault, or if I just pick the wrong guys, or if it’s a combination of the two. I don’t know when to say “This isn’t working” and leave it, and move on. I don’t know how to “date”, I only know how to have dysfunctional relationships that go on and on and on until the last dog is dead. :(

To make matters worse, I always pick people that are more appealing to my friends in the long run, than they are to me. Then I feel really guilty breaking up with the person, because everybody grows attached, and I know they’ll get upset.

I never feel qualified to say “this sucks”. I always feel like I’m complaining about nothing…

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