Hi,
Sorry if this has been suggested before, I am new to this website, but started reading all the replies and lost focus and couldnt read them all… I used to also think I was incredibly lazy, and have not been diagnosed, however, my son was recently diagnosed and the more I learn, the more i find myself thinking “OMG! Thats me!” since I have never understood myself at all, no wonder I am a total mystery to others when I cant even understand myself and why I am like I am! Anyway I ordered myself a book, cant remember the author, but the title was something about “Im not crazy, lazy or stupid!” This book is like somebody got into my head and wrote everything down (unfortunately I havent actually managed to finish the book, in fact ive only ever read about 4 books right the way through! lol) but try reading it! its an eye opener, trust me 
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