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February 29, 2012 at 3:35 pm
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I love it toofat – the “what about you?” trap! That one gets me every time.
I’m trying to be a good listener, trying to keep it about them and not me and then bam – 30 minute monologue about me, followed by realization that the person is just looking for a way to get out of the conversation.
Let’s see – turn it back around techniques – “Me? Same ole, same ole… anyway, you still haven’t told me about your family – what grade is your daughter in? Wow – that’s such a great age – what’s her favorite subject?”
haha – munch
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