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Unfortunately I had to skip through what most people said or I will forget what I want to say (I’m sure u can relate lol) as a kid my parents always said it was my tone, before I figured out and got diagnosed with adhd I used to say I am just more blunt than the majority of the public, and now I know that its more fear of not getting out what I want to say because its feels so important that I may forget! I have been fired from jobs for apparently saying something that offends customers when It was always with the best of intentions and a lot of the time I feel the need to do damage control as when you say something it is met with complete silence from the other party…apparently sorry is used wayyyy too often in my vocabulary or if you took it in this context I actually meant it in this context after I think about it and it goes around and around in my brain for a few hours! Now I can go back and read the rest of the posts in this thread Thanks!