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Anonymous
I know how you feel Mon. I have been same way since December. Lost about 15 lbs. Trying to focus on eating better, sleeping better, and slowly getting there.
I have been beating myself up a lot, of course, ruminating over things (why did I/why did she/what if), but regardless of the issues we face, it still takes two to make things work or not. My ex also said “I love you SOO much” a lot, even while I am pretty sure she was mentally on her way out the door. But shit happens. I also saw what I wanted to see a lot of the time.
So, now I have the opportunity to have a fresh start, work on getting my ADD and life managed in a better way. Be in a better place when I meet someone else – helps to make better choices.
In the meantime, working hard to put the pieces in place, exercising, taking vitamins, etc., trying to treat myself better despite the fact that I don’t always feel like it.
Good like, feel better.
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