Sure No-dop, I hear you, and that’s family!!! Take that conversation out past immediate family and well…………….jeez, forget it. Folks just don’t wanna hear it, not from anybody. Isn’t that one of the reasons we come here…….commonality, sharing, maybe even a little empathy from time to time. 
I don’t believe it’s because it’s ADD either, I wouldn’t get lost in that pile. Sure, we are sensitive to that subject, we have a dog in that race…….. but really, I believe those behaviors extend beyond that too.
Soooo……..maybe….maybe this thread just demonstrates the value of good friend, a close friend, good persons with good hearts that care deeply for you.
Maybe, it’s a good time to take a moment, cherish that if you have it……keep it close, and remember to feed it well from time to time.
Toofat