Wow, this is truly amazing. Thank you all very much for having this conversation.
Is it a common trait, do you think, for someone with ADD to have a problem with others being aggressive or even just a little displeased? I haven’t been diagnosed yet,but I think that I have ADD, I think primarily inattentive but I also display a little impulsiveness and impatience. Anyway, I’m really sensitive to hostility and/or tension in people’s voices. Actually I’m just sensitive to other people’s emotions. 
but anger/hostility is a point of real sensitivity. I have a problem with speaking up for myself and/or being assertive, though I’ve been working on it, but people used to/well pretty much still do, walk all over me and I would “freeze” mentally.
I get anxious too.
Thank you again.