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April 7, 2014 at 7:00 am #124779
Background…you can skip this intro. if you want to get down to heart of the matter, but it does play a part in deciding…
Being single the only excuses I have for my house being a mess are:
1. A.d.d.
2. I work 9-12 hours a day (it varies) avg.=10hrs. I do a lot of multitasking and re shifting throughout the day because of the nature of my job. It’s actually perfect for my a.d.d but it drains my brain for sure.
3. I have to do it all: house cleaning, yard work, laundry, shopping, pet care, bills, schedule appts., go to appts. that’s about it.I gave in recently and hired someone to come in 2x per month and clean kitchen, bathroom and living area. Which leaves garage (eek), my bedroom and 1 extra room. She has done some organizing and is pretty good at it, but she does it solo and I just have to keep it up until her next visit. It is good because I am doing better cleaning up after myself, at least in the kitchen. It’s not cheap but I accept that I need to do this.
Re: professional organizer:
1. More expensive. My dad has gifted me some funds that can totally help pay for this. Those funds are also for unexpected extra expenses that may occur ie; fence needs work, extra medical expenses, etc. don’t want to dwindle that money away.2. Maybe I can start to get it done now that I have cleaning help.yeah Hmmm I still have unfolded laundry, on top of the dryer, my room is still a mess.
3. Peace of mind is priceless right? Wow I am simply selling myself on this while writing.
4. Oh oh…I tried having a friend help me and that was horrible. Asking someone who lives relatively organized to walk into a.d.d chaos is not good for most relationships. Heck even my mom and I had moments of tremendous tension and frustration when she helped “organize me” in the past. Really she organized and I went back to my old ways not long after she went back home to Az.
5. Clearly I need to change the title of this topic from “to get professional organizing help or not” to “how I concluded I should get professional organizing help”. On it right now! Ok that’s done.
6. Hey, if you are considering this know that it isn’t cheap. I managed to book an “organizer in training” for about 1/2 the normal fee of the company I am working with. I will pay $35 an hour but generally it is at least $60. The company I contacted has worked with extreme cases (think a&e’s “hoarders”) which I could easily end up as if left to my old ways.
Ok so apparently I am going to try professional organizing services. Again I am working with a trainee and I pray that works out because $60 an hour is just not doable for me! Send good thoughts if you took the time to read this.
Hmmm maybe I will blog about it.
REPORT ABUSEApril 7, 2014 at 2:51 pm #124784“Eek” is right. And not just the garage, though that is probably at the top of my places-I-would-rather-forget-exist list. 😯
I agree it’s better not to have a friend, or your mother, do it. I have a super organized uber-cleaner Type A +++ friend who wanted to come and help me after my dad died. I nearly died of panic when I read his email and started furiously typing a response filled with every excuse I could imagine to stop him. Mom tried when I was a kid but always ended up giving up and doing it herself. Which I’m sure she would still do now if she could.
I think hiring someone is a great idea and I am sure the trainee will do just fine. Organizing is a skill that you either have or you don’t. Just one word of advice: make sure what she does works for you. Remember, your brain is not like hers. I have the hardest time finding things in a place that was organized by someone else, and yet I can find what I need in a snap in my own junk heap. People shake their heads in amazement and stare at me in awe and say “how can you find anything in there?” And I reply “because I know where everything is”.
REPORT ABUSEApril 7, 2014 at 6:22 pm #124785” I have the hardest time finding things in a place that was organized by someone else, and yet I can find what I need in a snap in my own junk heap.”
I’m the same way.
REPORT ABUSEApril 17, 2014 at 2:19 am #124886Best decision ever! I highly recommend hiring an organizer then a regular cleaning person for as often as you can afford. The stress relief is priceless!
REPORT ABUSEApril 17, 2014 at 11:13 pm #124895Well, I guess I like to continue to do things in a way that has never worked.
REPORT ABUSEApril 18, 2014 at 11:07 am #124900Glad to hear it worked out well for you. I am still struggling with my mess, which at this point in time is way beyond what even a professional could manage. I’m more at the rent a dumpster stage. Maybe more than one dumpster. 🙄
@kcj5ck
Well, if it doesn’t work, why change it? 😉
REPORT ABUSEApril 19, 2014 at 12:57 am #124905My thoughts exactly.
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