MWho23…….I believe, often a concept, trait, or behavior, is labeled (judged / determined) simply by the words used to describe it.
Wandering for instance…..can be a negative descriptor, describing one’s lack of focus, or, inability to stay on task….while meandering/considering, seems to create the impression of a person engaged in an intellectual thought process…….the weighing of pros and cons of a topic…..the process of “thinking it through”….investigating, or looking for or, at, all of the potential connections or outcomes. Due diligence, I think they call it!!!
Some people tend to jump to conclusions about others……..without all of the information….or asking for clarification…..thus judging. Often these snap conclusions or judgement are less than accurate……but difficult to change….once the door is closed.
Often I will find it takes time, at times days for an answer to show up, not always but sometimes, sometimes is comes instantly……for me, an answer can reveal it’s self at the oddest times…..right in the middle of a totally different conversation or activity, sitting watching TV……..is it wrong….weird….stupid……I don’t believe so …….it is just the mechanics of my thought processing. I’m very comfortable with it all, as for what others think…..why would I care….to what end????
Just my experience……
Toofat
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