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@Marcelyne, I thought of something else.
You know all those ultra-conservative politicians and preachers, who rant about adultery & homosexuality being so horribly evil…and then get caught doing exactly what they’d ranted against?
Could it be that your fiance is doing the same sort of “protesting too much”?
Maybe he was diagnosed with ADHD as a child, or suspects he has it now, and this is his way of trying to find out how you feel about it, because he doesn’t feel comfortable coming right out and telling you he has it.
Some people do this, to test the waters before plunging in.
It’s worth considering.
If you and your fiance BOTH have ADHD, then it will certainly add an interesting set of challenges—and benefits—to your marriage!
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